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WHAT TO WEAR IN LONDON: A FIRST-TIMER’S PACKING GUIDE

London, a city of iconic landmarks, rich history, and vibrant culture, can also be a bit of a fashion enigma. With its unpredictable weather and a blend of classic and contemporary style, packing for your first trip can be daunting. But fear not! This guide will equip you with essential packing tips to ensure you’re stylish and comfortable throughout your London adventure. Whether you’re planning a summer stroll through Hyde Park or a winter visit to Buckingham Palace, we’ve got you covered. Let’s dive into the art of packing for London!

CURIOUS ABOUT WHAT TO WEAR IN LONDON?

Lucky you! If you’ve been following this blog for a while, you know I’m a dedicated anglophile. I’m always planning my next trip to London, and I firmly believe the British capital is the greatest city in the world. Sure, other cities might have better food, nicer weather, or fewer tourists, but, as J.K. Rowling aptly put it, you can’t beat “the history and mystery of London.” The city boasts some of the world’s greatest museums, proximity to excellent day trip destinations, vibrant nightlife, the West End, stunning hotels, historic and cutting-edge shopping, and, of course, that unique pub life.

With all that said, dressing for London as a tourist can be quite the challenge. You want to look stylish in one of the chicest cities in the world, but you’ll also be walking up to 15 miles a day, standing in long lines, and heading out for fancy meals. Plus, it could rain at any moment, often unexpectedly and for varying durations.

But don’t worry! With several trips to the U.K. under my belt, I can help ease your packing anxieties and create the perfect London packing list. So, check that weather forecast (spoiler: there’s a chance of rain), and let’s get those bags packed for an unforgettable trip to London!

REMEMBER TO BRING YOUR PACKING CUBES!

No packing guide would be complete without mentioning my secret weapon: packing cubes! They keep everything organized before, during, and after your trip. I love how they help keep small items neat and tidy in the hotel room, and they’re also perfect for packing souvenirs on your way home!

WHAT’S THE WEATHER LIKE IN LONDON?

Weather is a key factor when packing for any trip, and in London, the ever-present chance of rain often takes precedence over seasonal changes. London experiences the typical four seasons, but temperatures are generally milder compared to the extremes found in the central U.S. For example, July averages around 74°F during the day and 59°F at night, while December sees temperatures of about 48°F during the day and 40°F at night. So, while summers are warmer, they’re not excessively hot—leave the short shorts at home, as many homes and public places in the UK lack air conditioning. On the flip side, you probably won’t need that heavy Canada Goose coat in winter.

DOES IT REALLY RAIN THAT OFTEN IN LONDON?

Yes, it does rain frequently in London. While you might encounter an occasional all-day downpour, it’s more common to experience unexpected showers, often in the afternoon or at inconvenient times. Londoners seem unfazed, often carrying on with their day in wool suits as if the drizzle doesn’t bother them at all. This can put a damper on your sightseeing plans, so having a reliable umbrella and a durable rain jacket is essential. We’ll dive into more details on this later.

WHAT TO WEAR IN LONDON

A TRENCH COAT

The British trench coat is a must-have for any trip to the U.K. Burberry remains the classic choice, now offered in various shorter and more colorful styles. If you prefer a subtler look, a darker, less conspicuous trench is a great option. J.Crew also offers some stylish trench coats that are worth checking out!

A BARBOUR JACKET

Barbour, a quintessential English brand, offers a range of jackets from traditional waxed styles to lighter, quilted options. The waxed jacket is particularly waterproof and, with the addition of a hood, is ideal for a day of sightseeing. Regardless of the season, Barbour is my top choice for exploring London. You’ll enjoy the classic charm of a British brand while staying prepared for any unexpected showers.

The Queen was famously fond of her Barbour coat. When she sent it in for refurbishment—a common practice with Barbour coats, designed to last a lifetime—the company offered her a new one. She graciously declined, preferring to keep her well-loved old coat!

A FEW TOPS

Finding the right sweaters for your trip to the U.K. is essential, as the damp weather can feel chillier than it might actually be. Even if it’s not extremely cold, you’ll appreciate having cozy sweaters to keep warm, especially when enjoying classic British comforts like pubs, tea, and a Sunday roast.

Unless you’re visiting during the peak of summer, packing at least one warm sweater is a must. I prefer turtlenecks for colder months, including spring and fall, as they eliminate the need for a scarf. Brands like Eileen Fisher offer excellent options. Ensure your sweaters fit comfortably under the coat you plan to bring by trying them on together before you leave. For additional options, consider checking out Orvis, LL Bean, and J McLaughlin for dressier sweaters.

Also, pack a couple of lightweight long-sleeved shirts that can easily fit under your jacket. If you need a few nicer tops for evenings out, include them, but don’t overpack blouses. In most cases, a light sweater or long-sleeved shirt will suffice, especially if you’re spending most evenings in the pub.

FEW PAIRS OF PERFECT PANTS

A fun fact to note is that in the U.K., “pants” refers to underpants, so use “jeans” or “trousers” when talking about what Americans call “pants.” For your trip, a pair of jeans and some casual black trousers should work well. I recommend Eileen Fisher’s crepe pants for comfortable travel. As for leggings, they are acceptable in London, but make sure to pair them with a longer shirt or tunic for a polished look.

THE RIGHT SHOES

Finding the right shoes for a trip to Europe can be challenging, but it’s essential for both comfort and style. For London, I recommend packing:

Knee-High or Ankle Boots: These are versatile and great for dealing with rain and walking long distances.

Loafers: Ideal for days when the weather is milder or when you want a break from boots. I’ve found Sam Edelman loafers to be particularly comfortable and stylish.

Clean Sneakers: Opt for a pair that’s not too sporty, like Veja, which are both fashionable and comfortable.

If you’re visiting during the summer, consider bringing a pair of sandals for quick outings, but skip the beach flip-flops, as they can look out of place and get dirty quickly. For rainy months, waterproof boots or booties are a must. Riding boots offer excellent coverage and comfort, but if they’re not your style, ankle boots or lug boots can work as long as you can walk in them all day.

For those with evening plans, sticking to boots or loafers might be your best bet instead of packing high heels. And while sneakers have become more acceptable, sticking to clean, stylish options like Veja will keep you looking chic and comfortable, just like Kate Middleton.

A NOTE ON DRESS CODES…

In the U.K. and across Europe, some establishments such as upscale restaurants, clubs, and religious sites (though less so in the U.K.) may have dress codes. It’s a good idea to check the websites of any restaurants or theaters you plan to visit to confirm their policies on jeans and sneakers. Some places might also require men to wear jackets. As an everyday tourist, this is likely to be less of an issue for you, but it’s worth verifying to avoid any surprises.

​DRESSES

On sunny days in London, a dress with a light jacket and loafers is perfect for exploring the city. Europeans typically reserve beach flip flops for the beach, so opt for more appropriate footwear. Boden offers excellent dress options ideal for enjoying the weather or attending a West End show.

Even on warmer days, it’s smart to carry an umbrella, as British weather can be unpredictable. To stay prepared for occasional drizzles, choose fabrics that handle rain well and consider adding tights, leggings, a scarf, and black riding boots. This will ensure you stay cozy and stylish, regardless of the weather.

PURSES FOR LONDON

When choosing a purse for London, the most crucial feature is that it should close fully to deter pickpockets, especially at popular tourist spots and on public transport. While I found London to be less prone to pickpocketing compared to other cities, it’s still wise to avoid large, open tote bags.

Opt for a small, lightweight purse that can carry just the essentials: an umbrella, money, credit cards, your phone, and an Oyster Card. A small crossbody bag is a great choice for ease of access and security. If you prefer more space, the Longchamp Le Pliage is a classic option, even if it’s not British—it’s stylish and practical, and if it’s good enough for The Princess of Wales, it’s good enough for me! For a British touch, check out The Cambridge Satchel Co., known for its beautifully crafted, traditional handbags. I picked up a saddle bag with a long crossbody strap there, perfect for easy touring.

WINTER COAT AND UMBRELLA

When packing for London, consider that it doesn’t usually get extremely cold. If you’re short on space, you might skip a winter coat in favor of a heavy Barbour jacket. However, if you’re traveling between December and March or plan to spend time in colder regions of the U.K., including a winter coat is advisable, especially for evenings out when you might want to dress up.

Avoid bringing your nicest wool coat due to the frequent rain. If you do bring a winter coat, consider packing a trench coat as well. For rainy days, an umbrella is essential. I recommend a compact umbrella that fits into a coat pocket or a small purse for convenience. If you prefer a larger umbrella, it’s often best to buy one once you arrive or borrow one from your hotel rather than lugging it with you.

KEEPING KIDS DRY

Keeping kids dry in London’s persistent rain can be a challenge, but it’s essential for a happy trip. Invest in high-quality waterproof jackets and pants that are both practical and stylish. Don’t forget sturdy, waterproof boots to keep little feet dry. Pack plenty of layers so you can adjust to changing weather conditions. And remember, a good sense of humor and a positive attitude can go a long way in embracing the rain!

CONCLUSION

Packing for London might seem tricky, but with a little planning, you can be ready for anything the city throws your way. Remember, layers are key, and don’t forget that iconic London style often involves a mix of classic and contemporary. So, embrace the unpredictable weather, pack versatile pieces, and get ready to explore this incredible city in style. Happy travels!

WHAT TO WEAR TO A FUNERAL IN THE SUMMER

Summer funerals present a unique sartorial challenge.  Respectful mourning attire often clashes with the desire for cool, comfortable fabrics during hot weather.  Fret not!  This guide will help you navigate what to wear to a summer funeral, ensuring you look appropriate while staying cool and comfortable. We’ll cover outfit ideas for both men and women, with a focus on honoring the deceased while keeping you feeling your best.

WHAT TO WEAR TO A FUNERAL THAT IS NOT BLACK?

While wearing black to a funeral is generally acceptable in Western societies, it’s important to note that not all cultures follow this tradition. For example, at Hindu or Sikh funerals, black may be considered inappropriate, and mourners are often expected to wear white. Additionally, different cultures have their own customs regarding mourning attire:

  • Red: In South Africa, red is sometimes worn as a mourning color. In Ghana, community members typically wear black and white, while the immediate family may wear red and black.
  • Purple: In Thailand, purple symbolizes sorrow and is commonly worn by widows during the mourning period. It is also worn alongside black in Brazil.
  • Grey: In Papua New Guinea, widows may apply stone-colored clay to their skin while mourning their husbands.
  • Bright colors: Many African, Caribbean/West Indies, humanist, and non-religious funerals in the UK and worldwide may opt for vibrant colors to celebrate life.
  • Subdued colors like grey, maroon, and navy blue can also be suitable alternatives to black.

Ultimately, it’s advisable to communicate with a family member or organizer to determine what attire is appropriate for the specific funeral ceremony.

WHAT DO WOMEN WEAR TO A FUNERAL?

For appropriate funeral attire, consider the following guidelines:

  • Skirt or dress: Opt for knee-length styles that are modest and understated, paired with tights for added discretion.
  • Smart trousers: Avoid jeans or casual trousers; instead, choose full-length or ankle-grazer trousers in a dark color for a polished look.
  • Plain blouse or top: Keep it conservative with a simple blouse or top, avoiding bold colors or patterns.
  • Cardigan, jumper, or blazer: Add an extra layer for warmth or to elevate a more casual outfit, especially during winter or in cold venues.
  • Smart jumpsuit: Consider a stylish jumpsuit as a comfortable and fashionable alternative to traditional attire.
  • Smart shoes: Stick to flats or sensible heels, with open-toed shoes or sandals being acceptable depending on the service location, culture, or country.

These considerations ensure respectful and appropriate attire for a funeral service.

WHAT DO MEN WEAR TO A FUNERAL?

For a polished appearance at a funeral, consider the following attire options:

  • Smart black or dark suits: Opt for a well-fitted suit in black or a dark color, paired with a white, long-sleeved shirt, and a tie for a classic look.
  • Smart trousers and blazers: If a traditional suit is not available, smart trousers paired with a plain white T-shirt and a blazer offer a slightly more casual yet acceptable alternative.
  • Plain black tie: While optional for some, wearing a plain black tie is recommended for a particularly refined appearance.
  • Polished black shoes: Choose dress shoes such as brogues or oxfords, although any smart footwear is acceptable.

Following these suggestions ensures a respectful and appropriate attire choice for the occasion.

THE DO’S AND DON’TS

First and foremost, it’s essential to recognize that a funeral is a time for solemnity, not a showcase for fashion statements. Opt for classic garments infused with your personal style, maintaining an appropriate demeanor. Despite the summer climate allowing for more flexibility in attire, adhering to etiquette guidelines remains crucial during this somber event.

Here’s a list of dos and don’ts to assist you. While these guidelines are applicable to both genders, some aspects may resonate more with one group than the other.

DON’T WEAR

  • In the summer heat, tight clothing can lead to discomfort and excessive sweating.
  • While athletic wear might be tempting in hot weather, it’s simply not suitable for a funeral.
  • Avoid revealing or casual attire such as tank tops, shorts, sundresses, or excessively short skirts.
  • Opt for muted colors and understated jewelry to avoid drawing attention away from the solemn occasion, as bold or flashy elements may appear disrespectful.
  • Though comfortable, flip-flops, sandals, and running shoes are inappropriate footwear choices for a funeral.
  • Ensure dresses, skirts, pants, and shorts fall to an appropriate length, avoiding anything too short for the occasion.

DO’S

  • Opt for clothing that covers your shoulders and reaches the knees, ensuring modesty and respectfulness.
  • Choose dresses with short sleeves, ensuring they remain modest in style.
  • In the summer heat, prioritize cool and breathable fabrics such as linen and cotton, which are ideal for both comfort and appropriateness.
  • While black is a traditional funeral color, consider darker neutrals like dark gray, navy, or brown for summer months. However, be mindful of any cultural expectations regarding funeral attire that the mourning family may have.
  • For outdoor funeral or memorial services, including graveside services, wearing a hat can provide protection from the sun. Some religions may even require a head covering for funeral services. Opt for a simple and appropriate hat, avoiding baseball caps.
  • Keep jewelry and accessories minimal to maintain a respectful appearance.

WHAT TO WEAR TO A FUNERAL IN THE SUMMER?

In the summertime, women attending a funeral have the option of wearing a dark-colored, flowing skirt paired with a simple blouse or top, or they may choose to wear a dress. Men might find a linen-style suit more comfortable in the heat, but smart trousers paired with a lightweight shirt are also appropriate. Sunglasses are generally acceptable for outdoor services.

OUTFIT IDEAS FOR WOMEN TO WEAR TO A SUMMER FUNERAL

Knee-length dress: A black, navy or dark gray knee-length dress is a classic and respectful option. Choose a dress with a conservative neckline and sleeves that cover the shoulders. You can add a light scarf or pashmina for a touch of coverage if the dress is sleeveless.

Skirt suit: A skirt suit in a dark color is another appropriate option. Choose a skirt that falls below the knee and a jacket that covers your arms. 

Dress pants and blouse:  Dress pants and a blouse in a dark color are versatile option that can be dressed up or down. Choose a blouse with a modest neckline and sleeves that cover the shoulders. 

Maxi dress: A maxi dress in a dark color can be a comfortable and stylish option for a summer funeral. Choose a dress with a high neckline and sleeves that cover the shoulders. 

OUTFIT IDEAS FOR MEN TO WEAR TO A SUMMER FUNERAL

Suit: A suit is always a safe and respectful option for a funeral, even in the summer. However,  consider opting for a lighter weight fabric like linen or cotton to stay cool. You can also choose a suit in a dark color like navy or charcoal instead of black. 

Dress pants and shirt:  A dress shirt and dress pants in a dark color is a versatile option that can be dressed up or down. You can wear a tie for a more formal look, or leave it off for a more casual look.  Choose a long-sleeved shirt, but if it’s very hot, you can opt for a short-sleeved shirt, but make sure to wear an undershirt. 

Polo shirt and slacks: A polo shirt and slacks in a dark color is a more casual option that is still appropriate for a funeral. Choose a polo shirt in a solid color and avoid anything with logos or bright colors. 

WHAT TO WEAR TO A FUNERAL IN WINTER?

When attending a funeral in winter, it’s important to dress warmly and consider bringing extra layers, especially for graveside services. Opt for black or dark-colored coats, jackets, scarves, and gloves to stay comfortable and respectful.

FAQ

1. Are there any other color options besides black?

Yes, dark gray, navy blue and even dark brown are all appropriate choices.

2. Can I wear a dress with short sleeves to a summer funeral?

It depends. If the sleeves are very short, consider adding a light scarf or pashmina for coverage.

3. Are sandals appropriate for a summer funeral?

No, it’s best to wear closed-toe shoes like pumps, flats, loafers, or oxfords for men.

4. Can I wear bright colors or patterns to a funeral?

It’s best to avoid them. Opt for solid colors in a subdued palette.

5. What kind of fabrics are best for a summer funeral?

Choose natural, breathable fabrics like cotton or linen that will keep you cool.

CONCLUSION

Attending a summer funeral allows for slightly lighter and more breathable clothing choices compared to colder months, but respectfulness remains key. By prioritizing dark colors, natural fabrics, and modest cuts, you can choose an outfit that is both comfortable for the summer heat and appropriate for the occasion.

Remember, the focus should be on paying respects to the deceased and offering comfort to the mourners. If you’re unsure about anything, err on the side of caution and opt for a more conservative outfit. With a little planning, you can find an outfit that is both respectful and suitable for a summer funeral.