DROP A STONE-COLD POSE INSTANTLY IN YOUR CHRISTMAS PICS

The Christmas Party Photo Hack: How to Pose Like an A-Lister and Look Flawless Every Time

Christmas is almost here – the season of joy, giving, and… unflattering photos. In this age of constant smartphone snapshots, the inevitable New Year rolls around, bringing with it a gallery of awkward, cringe-worthy pictures. From triple chins captured mid-laugh, to tree-trunk legs squashed beneath dinner tables, to the pesky pot belly no pair of Spanx can tame… it’s enough to make anyone cringe.

But somehow, female celebrities seem to dodge such humiliations. No matter where they’re photographed, they always manage to look effortlessly flawless. So how do they do it?

To find out, Femail enlisted ANNA PURSGLOVE to get the inside scoop from top models and photographers on how to pose like a pro. The verdict? With a few key tricks, any woman can appear taller, slimmer, and yes – even younger.

So, when the camera clicks at this year’s holiday gatherings, follow these tips to turn every Christmas party pic into a star-studded shot. Heads up, tummies in, and strike a pose…

BEFORE YOU START

The foundation of any great pose is starting with the right posture, according to portrait photographer Natasha Pszenicki. “Imagine there’s a thread running through your center, pulling you upwards through the top of your head,” she says. “Think tall, think long.”

Former model and celebrity hair and makeup artist Julia Bolino agrees: “I always tell the women I work with to channel their inner Darcey Bussell.”

“Standing tall and poised like a professional ballerina might sound simple, but you’d be amazed at how many women slouch,” she explains. “It’s almost like they’re trying to shrink themselves by hunching over, but from a photographic perspective, that only makes them appear more blocky and less flattering.”

KEEP YOUR CHIN UP

When it comes to smiling, the advice from our panel of experts is simple: don’t do anything that makes your eyes close.

“I always tell people to look at the camera for half a second longer than they think they should,” says fashion and celebrity photographer Juliette Neel. “People often underestimate how long it actually takes for a photo to be snapped. That’s when those dreadful, cock-eyed, drunk-looking shots sneak in.”

So, next time you’re posed for a holiday pic, give that extra second of eye contact with the camera – it’ll help you look more engaged and polished.

Natasha has another important tip: “Bring your chin away from your neck, or you’ll end up with a double chin, no matter how thin you are.”

For the perfect smile, she suggests slightly turning your head away from the camera while pulling your eyes back to the lens. This subtle shift helps elongate your neck and adds definition to your jawline.

And here’s a secret pro trick: Push your tongue into the roof of your mouth. “This helps lift the saggy bits underneath and around the sides of your chin, giving you a more sculpted look.”

With these simple adjustments, you’ll look camera-ready in no time!

WHITTLE YOUR WAIST

When caught off guard by a camera, many of us instinctively fold our arms over our belly or let them hang by our sides, but both moves only add width to areas we’d prefer to slim down. The key is to own it – the more confident you appear, the better the camera will capture you.

“Place one hand on your hip,” advises Natasha. “This creates a gap and helps define your waist. Then, push your elbows back slightly, keeping that triangular gap as long and narrow as possible.”

This pose is a favorite among celebrities like Victoria Beckham and Amanda Holden, as it not only highlights your waist but also pushes the shoulders forward to create that coveted hollow under the collarbone – giving you that “boniness” that’s so flattering.

But a word of caution from Natasha: “Be careful not to exaggerate the shoulder rotation too much. Subtlety is key.”

GET THE RIGHT ANGLE

“If you photograph people straight on, they look like bricks. But turn them too far sideways, and you get an unflattering tummy view,” says photographer Rhian Ap Gruffydd, who’s snapped countless TV stars.

Her solution? Turn one hip away from the camera, then bring your shoulders back towards it. This not only slims the bottom half but also naturally engages your core, making you draw in your tummy without even thinking about it.

It’s a simple trick that makes a huge difference in creating a flattering, slimming pose.

TRIM YOUR HIPS

If you’re feeling a little wider around the hips than you’d like, avoid standing square on to the camera.

“What you’re aiming for is to create an S-bend in your body that makes your hips look curvy but still in proportion,” says Juliette.

To achieve this, cross one thigh in front of the other, then shift your weight to your back foot. Once you’re balanced, kick the front heel out slightly. This pose accentuates your curves while keeping the silhouette flattering.

Julia also recommends keeping your hands asymmetrical to enhance the look: “Two hands in identical poses on opposite sides of the body will make you look wider.” Instead, place your hands in different positions to create a longer, leaner line.

And a key tip: Don’t press your hands directly into your hips. Doing so can create a bulge, so try to keep your hands relaxed and gently placed.

SIT UP STRAIGHT

To get your best shot when seated, Julia recommends turning your body three-quarters away from the camera. “This way, you show the sides of your legs, which is more flattering than a front view that highlights any fat around the hips and thighs, or makes your knees appear less attractive.”

Next, crossing your ankles is a must for an elegant pose. “It creates a much more graceful look in photos.”

Keep your knees together, suck in your tummy, and place your hands either on your hips or on the armrest of the chair. “Avoid putting your hands in your lap,” Julia advises, “because it can cut off your legs, making them appear shorter and wider.”

The most crucial piece of advice for looking elegant in a chair? “You shouldn’t be able to see the seat pad under your knees.” If that’s visible, it won’t be flattering.

Even if it means sitting a foot away from the back of the chair, always sit up straight and as far forward on the seat as you can without slipping off. This positioning will give you a longer, leaner appearance and make you look poised and confident.

conclusion

With these expert tips in mind, you’ll be ready to strike the perfect pose for every Christmas party photo – no more awkward, unflattering snaps! Whether you’re standing, sitting, or smiling, a few small adjustments can make a world of difference in how you look on camera. From the right posture and strategic hand placement to subtle shifts in angle and body position, you can instantly enhance your natural beauty and radiate confidence. So, this holiday season, remember: the camera loves confidence, and with these posing secrets, you’ll love the way it captures you.

CURLY HAIR ROUTINE FOR BEGINNERS 

Curly hair is beautiful and unique, but it can also be challenging to manage. If you’re new to embracing your curls, don’t worry! This beginner’s guide will walk you through a simple yet effective routine to help you achieve defined, bouncy, and frizz-free curls. Let’s embark on this curly hair journey together!

CHOOSING THE RIGHT SHAMPOO

The “right” shampoo is one that’s gentle and designed to enhance your curls. With so many options out there, it can feel overwhelming, but starting with a sulfate-free shampoo is a great choice—these are increasingly common as more brands release sulfate-free ranges.

Most products will be clearly labeled as sulfate-free, but if you’re unsure, you can easily check. Just search for the shampoo’s ingredients online, then copy and paste them into CURLSBOT, a tool that instantly tells you if it’s Curly Girl-approved. I keep CURLSBOT saved on my phone—it’s a lifesaver at any stage of the curly journey!

CHOOSING THE RIGHT CONDITIONER

The “right” conditioner for curly hair means opting for a silicone-free formula. If you’re used to products with silicones, going silicone-free may feel like a big change, but it’s an important step in a curl-friendly routine.

Many commercial conditioners contain silicones, so it’s worth checking labels. Silicone-free conditioners don’t need to be expensive—they simply avoid silicones that can build up on your hair, causing greasiness, weighing curls down, and reducing bounce.

A T-SHIRT FOR DRYING

That’s right—a simple t-shirt is perfect for drying curly hair! Unlike a regular towel, a t-shirt is much softer and won’t roughen the hair cuticle.

You can use it as you would a towel, or you can try “plopping.” To plop, gently lower your hair forward into the t-shirt, then wrap and secure it around your head. Leave it on for 10-40 minutes to absorb moisture while helping curls form into defined clumps.

Alternatively, there’s “micro-plopping,” where you scrunch each curl individually with the t-shirt to remove excess water. Whether plopping or micro-plopping, a t-shirt is gentler than a towel, though a microfiber towel is also a good option for curly hair.

CHOOSING A STYLING PRODUCT – GEL, MOUSSE, OR CREAM

When starting a curly hair routine, it’s common to use a gel, mousse, or cream. Some people even layer all three! For beginners, starting with one product is ideal; you can experiment and build up your routine as you get to know what works for your curls.

It’s a good idea to check product ingredients, avoiding “nasties” like drying alcohols (e.g., Alcohol Denat) and silicones. This extra step helps keep curls healthy and bouncy.

Apply styling products on soaking wet hair to lock in moisture and minimize frizz. Scrunch the product up to the roots, aiming to shape your curls while wet and keep that definition as they dry.

GEL

Gel is great for setting curls in a “cast” as it dries, holding the shape until you’re ready to scrunch out the crunch, leaving soft, defined curls. A favorite gel for many is the Umberto Giannini Curl Jelly.

CREAM

Creams reduce frizz and add moisture, giving a softer look and more volume, though they typically don’t define curls as much as gel.

MOUSSE

A lightweight mousse helps define curls and add volume, especially at the roots. It should be light and non-sticky, so curls feel soft once dry. Each product offers unique benefits—try one and see how your curls respond!

A DIFFUSER

While air-drying is a solid option, many people find that a diffuser becomes an essential tool for styling curls. Air-drying can take a long time, especially since curly hair tends to dry in clumps and retains more moisture with the products you’re using.

Using a diffuser can speed up drying while encouraging curl formation by lifting and holding curl clumps closer to the scalp. For best results, use a low heat setting to reduce potential heat damage.

Avoid using a regular dryer without a diffuser, as it can disrupt curl clumps. If you don’t have a diffuser attachment, it’s actually better to air-dry. And as you transition into a new curl routine, try to minimize the use of heated tools like curling wands—your curls will thank you!

A DEEP CONDITIONER

Deep conditioning is key to keeping curls hydrated and healthy. Aim to deep condition at least every two weeks, or even weekly if your hair needs the extra moisture. A quality deep conditioner helps rehydrate naturally dry curls, while also softening and detangling them.

These treatments often contain nourishing oils and butters. Simply apply after shampooing and let it sit for around 30 minutes before rinsing out.

Another option is a “pre-poo” treatment, where you apply an oil or conditioning treatment like Olaplex to dry hair before shampooing. Leave it on overnight or for a few hours to give your curls a deep boost before you wash.

FINAL TIP

Keep track of your washday routine to fine-tune your curly hair care and see what works best for you. Here’s what to note down:

  • Which cleansing and conditioning products you used, including any deep conditioners
  • Did you plop or micro-plop?
  • Which styling products you applied, and in what order
  • Did you apply them with your hair hanging forward or back?
  • Did you scrunch the products in?
  • Did you diffuse until your hair was 100% dry or just 80%?

Also, take photos of your results! They’ll be invaluable when you’re figuring out what works best for your curls. I still jot down small changes I make to my routine, as even minor adjustments can lead to major differences in results.

I created a tracker for myself to keep track of my washdays, and I’m sharing it here because I’ve found it super helpful!

CONCLUSION

Congratulations, you’ve taken the first step towards embracing your natural curls! Remember, consistency is key. As you continue to experiment with your routine, you’ll discover what works best for your unique hair type.

Don’t be afraid to seek advice from other curly-haired individuals or consult with a hairstylist who specializes in curly hair. By following these basic steps and tailoring them to your specific needs, you’ll be well on your way to achieving healthy, beautiful, and bouncy curls.