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10 AMAZING NATURAL HAIR RULES YOU SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS

Natural hair is fundamentally a lifestyle choice. Achieving your hair goals requires dedicated effort and a keen understanding of your unique hair type, porosity, density, and width. Think of your hair like a plant: the more you nourish it with quality products, hydrate it, and shield it from harsh conditions, the more it will thrive, grow, and transform. Here are the top 10 essential rules for maintaining healthy, vibrant natural hair!

SOLIDIFY YOUR WASH DAY ROUTINE

Your wash day is essential for maintaining healthy natural hair, as it all begins with proper moisture. Clarifying your hair is a crucial step in your wash day routine. If your hair is dirty, it won’t be able to absorb moisture effectively due to product buildup.

When it comes to shampoos, there are two key types every natural should have: moisturizing shampoos and clarifying shampoos.

Moisturizing shampoos feature gentle yet effective surfactants that cleanse the scalp by removing dirt and product buildup. These are perfect for regular use.

Clarifying shampoos, however, contain stronger cleansing agents designed to deeply cleanse your hair and eliminate hard-to-reach dirt, including mineral buildup. Shampoos with chelating ingredients are especially beneficial for low porosity hair, which often experiences quicker product accumulation.

Weekly deep conditioning is an essential rule in caring for natural hair. Its primary purpose is to condition, strengthen, and soften your hair, setting the stage for your leave-in products.

Always prioritize deep conditioning after shampooing to counteract any stripping effects from the shampoo. Opt for deep conditioners that feature emollients, fatty alcohols, and are packed with nourishing plant extracts.

USE MOISTURIZING LEAVE-IN STYLERS

Leave-in conditioners are crucial for all natural hair types, regardless of curl pattern, porosity, density, or width. These products not only offer moisture until your next wash day but also condition the hair and minimize friction.

Curly and coily hair often experiences curl interlocking, where curls and coils tangle together. This can lead to severe knots and tangles, resulting in increased breakage and shedding if not addressed.

Leave-in conditioners contain friction-reducing agents that help keep your curls manageable. They are definitely a staple in any natural hair routine. When paired with a plant-based botanical gel, your coils will stay tangle-free and frizz-free for days!

KNOW YOUR POROSITY

What’s the point of using all those expensive products if you don’t understand your hair’s absorption potential? Porosity is the most crucial rule to know about your hair. It determines how well your hair absorbs water and products, guiding you on what to use and how to apply it effectively.

Natural hair porosity refers to your hair’s ability to absorb moisture and products. Low porosity hair has a low absorption rate because its cuticles are tightly closed, making it challenging for moisture to penetrate. High porosity hair, on the other hand, has open cuticles, leading to a high absorption rate but difficulty in retaining moisture.

If you have low porosity hair, focus on enhancing moisture absorption. Because the cuticles are tight, products often sit on the surface. Choose lightweight formulas that promote absorption and include delivery agents to help penetrate the cuticle, especially for leave-in conditioners and styling products.

For high porosity hair, which has raised cuticles, moisture retention is key. Use products with ingredients that form moisture barriers and fill cuticle gaps to prevent moisture loss throughout the week.

BALANCE PROTEIN

Protein treatments are vital for addressing protein loss caused by mechanical damage (like detangling) and chemical damage (from heat tools, dyes, and relaxers), and they should be part of every natural hair routine.

However, excessive protein treatments can lead to dry, brittle hair—exactly what we want to avoid! It’s crucial to tailor your protein treatments according to your hair’s porosity and width to prevent overuse.

Smaller proteins, such as amino acids and peptides, can penetrate the hair cortex to strengthen it, making them suitable for all porosities and hair widths.

Conversely, larger proteins like hydrolyzed wheat and collagen function similarly to film-forming humectants, creating a protective barrier around the hair. These treatments are ideal for high porosity or fine to medium strands but can increase dryness in low porosity and coarse hair.

MAINTAIN A HEALTHY SCALP 

Scalp health is essential for a successful hair journey, regardless of hair type. Just as we care for our hair ends, we must prioritize our scalp.

Think of your scalp as the foundation of your hair; it deserves just as much attention. If our hair ends are like the wise elders, our scalp is the precious baby!

Here are some best practices for maintaining scalp health:

  • Moisturize: Use skin-friendly products to keep your scalp hydrated. Remember, the scalp is skin too, so avoid harsh ingredients.
  • Scalp Massages: Every few days, massage your scalp with nourishing oils like olive, castor, or avocado oil. Adding rosemary oil can enhance blood circulation and keep the scalp well-lubricated.
  • Gentle Hairstyles: Avoid tight hairstyles to reduce the risk of follicle damage.
  • Stay Clean: Regularly cleanse your scalp to remove oil, dirt, bacteria, and product buildup.

PROTECT YOUR HAIR

Protective styling is crucial for maintaining a healthy natural hair routine. If you’re aiming for hair growth, protective styles help retain length while locking in moisture, supporting your growth goals. To avoid any drawbacks of protective styling, follow these best practices: ensure your style isn’t too tight to prevent follicle tension, and regularly take it down for clarifying and re-moisturizing.

LISTEN TO YOUR HAIR

Mastering the art of listening to your hair can be challenging, but it’s essential for your hair journey. For instance, some people with natural hair can go a week without moisturizing, while others may need to re-moisturize every two days. Both are perfectly normal!

Remember, everyone’s hair is unique. If your hair feels dry, clear away buildup and follow up with a deep conditioner and leave-in. Pay attention to what your hair is telling you—it will show its appreciation!

UP YOUR DIET AND EXERCISE ROUTINE AS NEEDED

This year, let’s acknowledge the important connection between diet, exercise, and beauty. The saying “you are what you eat” holds true for natural hair. Staying hydrated is essential for hair growth, but making key dietary changes—like eating a balanced diet and taking necessary supplements—is equally important. Regular exercise also plays a vital role.

To boost your hair growth, focus on incorporating plenty of leafy greens and fruits into your meals. Empower yourself by understanding your body—are you missing any essential nutrients? Nutrients like iron are crucial for the hair cycle, and deficiencies can show up in your hair.

Lastly, don’t underestimate the impact of exercise. Many people with natural hair report that moderate weekly workouts help enhance their hair growth cycle.

STOP COMPARING

They say comparison is the enemy of creativity, and I couldn’t agree more. Remember, pursuing any goal is a marathon, not a sprint. Despite what some natural hair influencers may claim, hair doesn’t grow overnight—anyone who says otherwise isn’t being truthful.

Avoid comparing your hair journey to others; you are unique, and there’s no need to emulate someone else. Instead, focus on the health of your hair. Healthy hair grows! By keeping it moisturized, protected, and happy, you’ll set yourself up for success on your hair growth journey.

ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS

We can be our own harshest critics, but your hair is beautiful just as it is right now. It’s important to take a moment to recognize your achievements, growth, and progress. Remember, your hair is always growing, and it deserves your gratitude!

CONCLUSION

These commandments are a foundational guide for healthy natural hair. While individual hair needs vary, following these science-based tips and adapting them to your specific hair type will help you achieve optimal results

40 ADORABLE NATURAL HAIRSTYLES FOR BLACK KIDS

Your little one is a bundle of joy, and their natural hair is a crown of glory! Let’s celebrate the beauty of their curls, coils, and kinks with a collection of 40 irresistibly cute hairstyles perfect for two-year-old black toddlers. From simple styles for everyday adventures to intricate looks for special occasions, we’ve got you covered. Get ready to discover endless possibilities for your toddler’s hair and watch their confidence bloom! Let’s dive into the world of toddler hair and explore some amazing styles together!

AT WHAT AGE CAN I START STYLING MY BABY’S HAIR?

You can style your little girl’s hair at any age. The hairstyles below are perfect for children who are two years old or younger. From a simple headband to easy puffs or buns, there are endless possibilities for adorning her hair.

ARE BRAIDS SUITABLE FOR TODDLERS?

Braids can be a fantastic choice for toddlers when done gently and with care to avoid putting too much tension on the scalp.

AT WHAT AGE IS IT APPROPRIATE TO START BRAIDING (OR CORNROWING) MY BABY’S HAIR?

very child is unique, but generally, by age three, most toddlers have the patience to sit for an hour or more, especially with distractions. The right age for braiding your child’s hair can also depend on their hair texture and length. If your daughter has kinky 4c hair that is longer than 3 inches, you can braid it comfortably without causing tension. In such cases, her hair might be ready for braids as early as 12 months old.

HOW CAN I CARE FOR MY TODDLER’S HAIR?

Early protective measures, such as using satin bonnets and pillowcases, help reduce breakage and frizz. Loosen the base of ponytail sections before bedtime to prevent pain and damage from tension.

To keep her hair moisturized, apply a leave-in conditioner twice a week and use a gentle oil, like olive oil, to grease her scalp.

For healthy hair growth, wash her hair weekly and follow up with a deep conditioning treatment to nourish and support continued growth.

THE MOST ADORABLE HAIRSTYLES FOR TWO-YEAR-OLD TODDLERS

WASH AND GO ON BABIES

Who says little girls can’t rock a wash-and-go? When you want to switch things up, simply gather her hair into a stylish mega puff.

STITCH BRAIDS ON A TODDLER

Precision is essential for this 4-5 pie slice cornrow style. The cornrowed sections are divided into perfectly aligned slices, highlighting the meticulous braiding skills of moms.

LOVELY CORNROWS

These natural hair cornrows reveal a heartwarming surprise at every twist and turn, making them ideal for your most patient little ones. Complete the look with a coordinating hair accessory of your choice.

TWO STRAND TWISTS WITH ACESSORIES

For those who prefer not to braid, you can achieve a cornrow-like effect by using small banded sections that interlock with each other. This approach helps keep the hairline mostly fuzz-free and adds a unique twist to this 6-section style.

FRONTAL CORNROWS

A few cornrows paired with butterfly clips turn this short natural style into an ethereal delight. It’s perfect for kids who have a hard time sitting still for hair appointments. This simple hairstyle can even be braided while she’s asleep or eating.

SOFT TWO STRAND TWISTS WITH A MEGA BOW

Classic twists and weighted ends become more engaging with freestyle parts and sections divided into odd numbers.

EIGHT CHUNKY TWO-STRAND TWISTS

In this style, banded sections are connected after the rubber bands are placed. A loose, twirly twist is secured with a firm braid at the end to keep the hair in place.

CREATIVE TWISTS IN A PUFF

Banded sections are divided in two, twisted, and then gathered into a high, soft coily puff with the loose ends.

EASY CORNROWS ON TODDLER

FREESTYLE BUNS AND PLAITS

This style captures all that’s delightful about fresh baby girl hairstyles. Since growth can be uneven and unpredictable, mix and match styles to suit her current length. Short pieces can be styled high, long pieces gathered low, and every piece looks absolutely adorable.

MINI PUFFS ON SHORT HAIR

On days when you’re too tired for anything complicated, you’ll be relieved to know that pigtails secured with colorful hair ties matching your little girl’s outfit are always a great choice.

MEGA CURLY PUFFS WITH FULANI CORNROWS

As your toddler’s hair grows in length and volume, take advantage of this low-maintenance styling phase. Highlight her girlish charm with soft duckbill flower clips that won’t strain her roots or pinch her delicate skin while she naps.

MEGA BUNS WITH SCRUNCHIES

Boost your baby girl’s bun volume with double scrunchies and pair it with a matching outfit!

RUBBERBAND HAIRSTYLE WITH CORNROWS AND BUNS

Enhance your basic row-back skills with precise parts to add depth to the style. Rainbow rubber bands introduce a vibrant touch between two standard cornrows on either side. Tightly plaited ponytails can be styled into buns early in the week and then switched to a braid-out for some extra volume before wash day.

SUMMERTIME CURLS

Natural curls are ideal for styling baby girls’ hair during summer, especially when pool splashing and sprinkler fun can leave twists and braids looking fuzzy. To avoid matted, tangled beads from chlorine-dampened hair, pre-treat loose, free-flowing curls that can be easily rinsed and detangled after water play. Gather a small section at the top and add a bow for a cute, fancy look for a post-pool playdate.

SIMPLE JUMBO TWISTS WITH ACCESSORIES

Medium-sized beads are a fantastic addition to the ends of larger braids or twists. They transform a basic four-square layout into something special for any occasion! Complete the look with coordinating bows for the perfect finishing touch.

SIMPLE PLAITS WITH ACCESSORIES

Short toddler hair can gain length and movement with a bit of added weight. Beads, barrettes, and, as shown here, twin beads at the ends of twisted or plaited sections help direct short hair to grow downward rather than outward.

CORNROWS WITH ZIG ZAG DOUBLE PUFFS

Cornrows with zigzag patterns and double puffs are a playful and stylish choice for two-year-olds. This fun hairstyle combines intricate braiding with bouncy puffs, creating a look that’s both eye-catching and suitable for young kids.

AFROPUFF GIRL

Nothing says “pretty girl rock” quite like a pair of classic afro puffs. The fuller the puffs, the better! Define your toddler’s curls with Aunt Jessie’s Baby Butter Crème on wash day for curls that stay bouncy and beautiful all week at daycare.

BRAID-FREE PASTEL PATTERN

Alternating white and yellow rubber bands offer a delightful braid-free style, ideal for braid-shy moms and active toddlers.

TWO STRAND TWISTS ON TODDLERS

Twists and their “twist-outs” are a quick and easy style for damp, freshly washed hair, perfect for both moms and their babies. Twists provide a heat-free method to stretch drying hair, setting the stage for more intricate braided and cornrowed styles later. Adding a headband or wrap to the freestyle twists completes the look and enhances the protective style.

ZIGZAG BABY BANTU KNOTS

This five-section style is defined by precise parts and neatly laid sections. Secure each base with a rubber band, then band again after tightly winding the plaited hair into a knot. Use kid-friendly edge control for a sleek, smooth finish.

AFROPUFF WITH CURLY BANGS

Toddler curls are delicate, soft, and charming during their early years. Hairstyles can range from elaborate to simple. Here, baby girls’ curls are left loose and free for everyone to admire, with short front curls styled like bangs. A large statement bow adds an extra touch of specialness to the softly gathered high ponytail.

BABY BUNS WITH DOUBLE SCRUNCHIE

Nothing adds volume to fine toddler hair like a classic ’90s scrunchie. Thankfully, they’re making a comeback!

TWA WITH A MEGA HEADBAND

Every child is unique, so cherish the carefree days of short-haired babies while they last. Celebrate baby girls’ peach fuzz with bows, headbands, wraps, and hats.

VALENTINE’S CHIC

The rear heart serves as the centerpiece and focal point of this style. After creating the heart part, six symmetrical spokes outline the remaining sections. Apply leave-in curl conditioner to enhance shine and definition.

HALF-UP HALF-DOWN

Part broad sections along your toddler’s hairline to create individual twists. Face-framing strands, especially if too short for a ponytail, can become fuzzy, but shorter strands stay neat within the small twisted sections. Gather the remaining hair into a fluffy top ponytail or leave it loose to showcase natural curls. Finish the look with pretty pink metallic cuffs for a delightful touch.

RUBBERBAND SECTIONS

Metallic braid cuffs add a touch of elegance to basic black rubber bands. Start from the front and work your way back, connecting each section for a neat, unified look. For longer hair, link sections of the free-hanging ponytail like little sausages. Place the cuffs over the rubber bands along the length of the style for a polished finish.

DOUBLE MEGA BUNS

Diagonals, zig-zags, and lightning bolt parts instantly add flair to your toddler’s hairstyle. Loose hair gathered into buns looks even more adorable when accessorized with crisscrossed rainbow clips.

BASKET WEAVE PARTY PLAITS

No cornrow skills are needed for this style. The simple basket weave creates a complex look from straightforward plaited hair. Banded sections on either side of a central part are braided from root to tip. Gather the plaits on the left into the larger section of remaining hair on the right. Weave the small plaits on the right under, over, and under to form the basket pattern, then gather them into a ponytail on the opposite side. Finish with a pair of buns adorned with matching twin beads.

BANDED BEAUTY

Colored rubber bands and symmetrical parts add visual interest while keeping hair neatly in place. Twisted bangs help reduce tension at the front. Gathered hair can be left in a poof or twisted to complement the front style.

PIGTAIL PUFFS

Fuzzy edges indicate it’s time for a style refresh. Keeping your toddler’s hairline cornrowed helps prevent fuzz from disrupting a beautiful look. These charming puffs stay neat longer with the edges braided down.

SPLIT TWIST FREESTYLE

Freestyle parts and simple two-strand twists offer a quick and easy style suitable for children of any age. This look is especially effective on freshly washed, damp hair, as the twists will be coily and more likely to stay in place. Divide each gathered section into two twists for added volume, and use beaded ends to add weight for extra stretch and movement.

CUTE CURLS WITH A HEADBAND

Newborn curls require gentle care and consistent cleansing and conditioning. Maintain your toddler’s hair with a shiny and defined look using kid-friendly leave-in conditioner and curl-defining custard. Before long, that TWA will transform into a full, glorious crown.

EAR-TO-EAR BRAIDED HEAD BAND

This ear-to-ear style perfectly complements an ear-to-ear smile. As their daughter’s hair and patience grow, many moms start learning to cornrow. This beginner-friendly style features a single cornrow across a wide left-to-right section of hair. The tail is gathered into a natural top puff and embellished with bows and barrettes.

FULANI CORNROWS WITHOUT EXTENSIONS

Natural hair cornrows are an excellent way to showcase your toddler’s personality. The pie-slice part pattern provides a great opportunity for a top bow. Let your daughter choose her favorite accessories in her preferred colors. Here, subtle brown beads complement her choice of pink perfectly.

CORNROWS INTO AN AFROPUFF

Restless toddlers may not have the patience for intricate cornrow styles, so aim for a neat, sweet, and functional look. This square pattern gathers the front half of the hair into four broad sections, making it easy to manage.

Cornrow the remaining hair while your baby naps on a pillow in your lap or enjoys a snack in her highchair. If she becomes too restless, skip the rear sections and smooth the back into a natural puff. Add grosgrain bows for a touch of sparkle.

TOP KNOT ON LITTLE GIRLS

Whether you call them twin beads, bobbles, baubles, or balls, we all wore them, and now our babies do too. Cluster complementary colors around your baby girl’s top knot, letting her choose the shades while you smooth her edges into place.

TWISTS WITH BARET

Two-strand twists are a classic and quick way to elevate your toddler’s hair from frazzled to fancy. Adding barrettes to the ends provides extra weight, giving the twists stretched length and playful movement.

THREE AFRO PUFFS

Your toddler’s hair is delicate and new, so celebrate her natural curls with a simple top puff and a charming accent bow.

CONCLUSION

Embrace the beauty and versatility of your little one’s natural hair! From adorable puffs and twists to playful braids and buns, these 40 hairstyles offer endless possibilities for your two-year-old’s unique style. Remember, the most important thing is to choose styles that are comfortable, low-maintenance, and protect your child’s delicate hair. With a little creativity and care, you can create stunning looks that celebrate your toddler’s natural beauty and confidence.