22 THINGS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT THE LATE PRINCESS DIANA

Princess Diana was a trailblazer, activist, and style icon, leaving an undeniable mark as one of the most influential figures of the 20th century. Despite living much of her life under intense public scrutiny, there’s still so much to discover about the beloved late royal. From her favorite fashion designer and life before joining the royal family to her music preferences and unique approach to parenting, here are 22 things to remember about the People’s Princess.

SHE WAS THE FOURTH OF FIVE CHILDREN

Diana Frances Spencer had two older sisters, Sarah (now Lady Sarah McCorquodale) and Jane (now Lady Jane Fellowes), as well as a younger brother, Charles Spencer, who later became the 9th Earl Spencer. She also had another brother, John, who sadly passed away shortly after birth in 1960—just a year and a half before Diana was born.

HER PARENTS DIVORCED WHEN SHE WAS SEVEN

Diana’s parents, Frances Shand Kydd and Edward John Spencer, 8th Earl Spencer, had a turbulent marriage that ended in divorce when she was just seven years old. She later revealed that their relationship was marked by infidelity and domestic struggles, making her childhood difficult.

HER GRANDMOTHER WAS A LADY-IN-WAITING TO THE QUEEN MOTHER

Diana’s maternal grandmother, Ruth Roche, Baroness Fermoy, was a lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother. She played a key role in royal circles, acting as a trusted assistant and companion to the Queen Mother and organizing many of her events.

SHE GREW UP ON THE SANDRINGHAM ESTATE

Diana was born and raised on the royal family’s Sandringham estate in Norfolk. Her childhood home, Park House, was leased from Queen Elizabeth II and held deep family history—her mother, Frances, was also born there.

SHE DREAMED OF BECOMING A BALLERINA BUT WAS TOO TALL

Diana had a deep love for ballet and aspired to become a professional dancer. However, she eventually had to give up her dream as she grew too tall for the profession. Her ballet teacher, Anne Allan, later reflected on Diana’s passion, saying that dancing brought her a sense of freedom and joy.

SHE BECAME “LADY DIANA” AT 14

In 1975, Diana’s father inherited the title of Earl Spencer, making her officially “Lady Diana Spencer.” The nickname “Lady Di” stuck with her, even after she became the Princess of Wales.

SHE STRUGGLED IN SCHOOL

Diana was homeschooled until the age of nine, after which she attended boarding school. However, academics weren’t her strong suit—she failed her O-Level exams twice and left school at 16. She later spent a semester at a Swiss finishing school before returning to England.

SHE WORKED AS A NANNY AND TEACHER

Before becoming a princess, Diana worked a variety of jobs, including as a nanny and a part-time kindergarten teacher in London. She reportedly earned just $5 an hour while caring for children, cleaning, and doing laundry.

SHE WAS THE FIRST ROYAL BRIDE TO HAVE A PAYING JOB

When Diana married Prince Charles in 1981, she became the first woman in history to marry an heir to the British throne after having held a paying job. The Duchess of Cambridge later became the first royal bride to have earned a university degree.

PRINCE CHARLES FIRST DATED HER OLDER SISTER

Before Diana and Charles became romantically involved, he briefly dated her older sister, Sarah. In fact, Sarah took credit for introducing them, once joking, “I’m Cupid!”

SHE AND HER SISTER REMAINED CLOSE

Despite her sister’s past relationship with Prince Charles, Diana and Sarah remained very close throughout Diana’s life. Diana once described Sarah as “the only person I know I can trust.”

SHE WAS DISTANTLY RELATED TO PRINCE CHARLES

Diana and Charles were actually 16th cousins once removed, both descendants of King Henry VII. Interestingly, Prince William and Kate Middleton are also distant cousins, sharing an ancestor in Sir Thomas Leighton.

SHE MET PRINCE CHARLES ONLY 13 TIMES BEFORE THEIR ENGAGEMENT

Before their engagement in 1981, Diana and Charles had met only about a dozen times. At the time, Diana was 19, while Charles was 32. Reports suggest that Prince Philip pressured Charles to “do the right thing” and propose.

HER WEDDING DRESS BROKE RECORDS

Diana’s iconic wedding gown, designed by David and Elizabeth Emanuel, featured more than 10,000 pearls and a record-breaking 25-foot train—the longest ever worn by a royal bride.

SHE WAS THE FIRST ROYAL TO GIVE BIRTH IN A HOSPITAL

Breaking centuries-old royal tradition, Diana chose to give birth to both Prince William and Prince Harry at St. Mary’s Hospital in London rather than at home.

SHE WAS AN UNCONVENTIONAL ROYAL MOM

Diana was determined to give her sons as normal a childhood as possible. She took them to public schools, rode public transportation with them, and even treated them to fast food and amusement parks.

SHE MADE SURE HER SONS HAD REAL-WORLD EXPERIENCES

Diana’s former chief of staff, Patrick Jephson, recalled how she ensured her children experienced everyday moments, like standing in line for a McDonald’s meal or going to the movies with friends.

CATHERINE WALKER WAS HER FAVORITE DESIGNER

Diana had a close relationship with fashion designer Catherine Walker, who was responsible for many of her most iconic outfits. Their bond was so strong that Diana once described Walker as her “rock.”

SHE CREDITED CATHERINE WALKER FOR BOOSTING HER CONFIDENCE

In a note to Walker about a white halter dress she wore in 1996, Diana wrote, “I was so proud and felt very confident to stride out there and deliver my first speech since the divorce.”

SHE ALWAYS WROTE “THANK YOU” NOTES

Diana was known for her kindness and gratitude, frequently writing handwritten thank-you notes. When Prince William was born, she reportedly sent thousands of thank-you letters to people who had sent gifts. Today, her letters are highly valuable, selling for thousands of dollars at auctions.

SHE WAS A TRAILBLAZER IN HIV AWARENESS

In April 1987, Diana made history when she shook hands with an HIV-positive patient without wearing gloves. The powerful moment helped challenge public misconceptions and reduce stigma around the illness. That same day, she opened the UK’s first HIV/AIDS ward at London’s Middlesex Hospital.

SHE HAD MANY FAMOUS FRIENDS

Diana built friendships with several A-list celebrities, including Elton John, George Michael, Liza Minnelli, and Tilda Swinton. She even stayed at Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn’s Colorado ranch with William and Harry for ten days to escape the paparazzi.

CONCLUSION

These 22 lesser-known facts illuminate a woman who was far more than a royal figurehead. From her mischievous childhood and hidden talents to her passionate activism and quiet acts of rebellion, Diana defied expectations and carved her own path. She was a woman of contradictions: vulnerable yet strong, reserved yet outspoken, traditional yet fiercely modern. Ultimately, these insights offer a more nuanced understanding of the late Princess of Wales, revealing the human being behind the icon and solidifying her lasting legacy as a figure of compassion, courage, and enduring inspiration.

GUIDE TO JAPANESE SUBSTYLES

This is a list of various substyles within fashion, along with their definitions. Keep in mind that styles often overlap and mix, so don’t worry too much about labeling your outfit under one specific substyle. In the end, it’s all still girly kei!

Core Styles

CASUAL GIRLY

As the name implies, this substyle is casual girly kei. The clothing is often oversized and made from comfortable materials, promoting a relaxed vibe. Hairstyles, makeup, and accessories tend to be simple, with braids and twintails commonly seen. This versatile substyle can range from modest to flashy, depending on how you choose to coordinate your outfit.

SWEET GIRLY

The most popular substyle is known for its playful, over-the-top details like lace, ribbons, and plenty of cute prints. Pastel shades dominate, though darker colors can also be found. Decorative elements are more extravagant compared to other styles, and hair accessories like headbands and ribbons woven into ornate hairstyles are common. Accessories and even main pieces often feature bijou detailing, adding a touch of sparkle. When it comes to footwear, platforms are the most popular choice, though tea party shoes and Mary Janes are also frequently seen. During winter, ankle boots become a stylish and practical option.

FRENCH GIRLY

French girly is a substyle that embodies the romanticized image of a young French woman, similar to the popular “French model aesthetic” seen on TikTok. Outfits typically feature lower platforms and a monochromatic palette of black, white, and gray, often mixed with creams and off-whites. Key elements include hairbands, pearl and gold accents, curled hair, berets, tweed, and ruffled sleeves. Many wearers incorporate high-end European fashion designers into their looks through accessories or cosmetics. While French text is common on accessories, it’s rarely found on clothing.

NATURAL GIRLY

At first glance, natural girly may resemble mori fashion, sharing a vintage-inspired aesthetic. It features a soft silhouette with longer skirts and delicate embroidery. Earth tones are popular, along with square-toed shoes, loafers, canvas bags, and minimal or no-makeup looks. Thrifting is a common practice among natural girly wearers, who often prefer pieces made from all-natural fabrics.

OTONA GIRLY

This substyle caters to those looking for a more mature look. Outfits typically feature longer skirts and a toned-down aesthetic with fewer details. While not always the case, colors tend to be muted, creating a more understated appearance compared to other styles. Solid colors, simple floral patterns, and polka dots are common, along with designer handbags and high heels. Newcomers may find it challenging to distinguish otona from general feminine fashion, as the style emphasizes subtle cute details, even in its simplicity!

RETRO GIRLY

This substyle draws inspiration from retro fashions, making you look as though you’ve stepped right out of the past! It often includes outfits resembling old-fashioned school uniforms, with browns, creams, and lots of plaid being key elements. Folded socks, tights, Mary Janes, and hats are also common accessories. Despite the vintage feel, the clothes in this style aren’t actually vintage but are designed to have a retro aesthetic. It’s all about capturing the charm of old-school fashion while keeping it fresh and modern!

DARK GIRLY

Despite its name, this substyle isn’t just girly kei in dark colors—it has a distinctly edgy vibe. Unlike sweet girly, which focuses on cuteness, dark girly embraces a bolder, more rebellious atmosphere. Key elements include heavy makeup, bondage-inspired accessories, and dramatic platform shoes. Religious iconography, like crosses, hexagrams, and rosaries, is commonly featured. Lace socks and fishnet stockings are popular in this style, with ripped fishnets being a common touch to add to the edgy aesthetic. This substyle blends a sense of mystery with a tough, fashion-forward attitude.

Related Styles

HIMEKAJI

Contrary to what some in the West may believe, himekaji is not solely a gyaru substyle! This fashion is defined by floral prints and abundant lace. While short skirts were prevalent during the gyaru boom, longer garments are now popular and can also be styled for girly kei. Pearl details and accessories are just as common as bijou elements, with an emphasis on keeping accessories elegant and cute.

MENHERA

If you’re not familiar with the menhera subculture, it’s a good idea to start with articles by Menheratic. The style often features vent art prints, with a variety of clothing options, including girly pieces. Outfits typically consist of an oversized top worn as a dress, minimal accessories, platform shoes, simple hairstyles, and byojaku makeup. However, it’s important to remember that menhera primarily focuses on mental health awareness, and the true essence of a coord lies in the meaning assigned to it by the wearer!

JERSEY MAID

Since around 2020, Japanese alternative fashion enthusiasts have embraced (often kawaii-fied) tracksuits and a general gopnik attitude, which has influenced various styles, including girly kei. Although the term suggests a maid-like appearance, it applies to all sorts of frilly tracksuit-inspired outfits, regardless of whether they feature an apron. It’s worth noting that searching for “tracksuit” won’t yield the desired results; they’re referred to as “jersey” in this context. This trend is closely tied to the mizuiro aesthetic, popularized by Tenshi Zyoshi.

CHINA KEI

This style has been around for some time but is often unfamiliar by name. China kei is a kawaii-inspired take on traditional Chinese clothing, including tangzhuang, qipao, and hanfu. Accessories like bun covers, hair sticks, and Chinese knots are common. While Japanese brands may occasionally release similar items, it’s much more prevalent among Chinese indie brands on platforms like Taobao.

OtherJAPANESE TRADITIONAL

JAPANESE TRADITIONAL

Many reinterpretations of traditional Japanese clothing exist across various styles, and girly kei is no exception. This aesthetic includes numerous kimono and yukata designs, as well as girly kei brand releases that incorporate iconic collars and sleeves while maintaining the fashion’s essence. Wearers often pair these outfits with girly kei accessories, intricate hair ribbons, and decorative nails to complete the look. Some may even choose non-traditional platform shoes instead of tabi and geta!

GIRLY-INSPIRED COSTUMES

Given the fashion’s popularity, it’s no surprise that there are costumes inspired by the girly kei style. Themes like jiangshi, nurses, maids, and nuns often receive a girly kei twist, especially in Halloween specials of Larme magazine. Essentially, if you can imagine it, you can make it girly! While not always shown, it’s also common to see idol costumes infused with girly elements.

conclusion

While this may not be an exhaustive list, I hope you found it informative! If there’s a specific substyle you feel is missing and deserves attention, don’t hesitate to reach out to me in my inbox!