“Age is just a number,” they say. While that’s true in spirit, certain fashion choices can inadvertently age us beyond our years. From ill-fitting clothes to outdated trends, our wardrobes can play a surprising role in how we perceive ourselves and how others see us. This article will explore some common fashion mistakes that can make people appear older than they actually are, offering insights into how to avoid them and embrace a more youthful and vibrant style.
DON’T: ONLY WEAR BLACK CLOTHES
We know this might go against everything you’ve been told—after all, “black is slimming” and “black is chic.” It sounds like the perfect choice as we get older, right? Not exactly. While every wardrobe should have some black pieces, it’s best not to overdo it. Wearing all-black outfits too often can make you look pale, feel a bit dull, and, most importantly, can seem lifeless. Too much black can also create a shapeless silhouette. Instead, try balancing it with other colors or textures for a more vibrant and flattering look.
Don’t worry if you can’t bear to throw away that black turtle neck you love, though. Simply mix and match, and pair one black item with something bolder, brighter, and more colorful.
DON’T: FOLLOW POPULAR FASHION TRENDS
While staying current with fashion trends is great, relying on them as a strict guide can make you appear older than you are. Trends aren’t a one-size-fits-all solution, and who wants to blend in with the crowd? Instead of following every trend to the letter, use them as inspiration. The key is to develop your own style and seamlessly incorporate elements of these new trends in a way that feels uniquely you.
DON’T: FOCUS ON HAVING TO “DRESS YOUR AGE”
At some point, everyone starts to question their wardrobe—whether it flatters them and if it’s appropriate for their age. This often leads to a lot of Google searching, only to find a mix of contradictory advice. That’s because fashion isn’t ruled by a single, universal rule. The possibilities are endless, so why stress about “dressing your age?” It’s far more exciting to break the rules and embrace your own style.
DON’T: ADD A STATEMENT NECKLACE TO YOUR OUTFIT
Accessorizing always adds flair and personality to an outfit, but it’s important to choose your accessories wisely. This is especially true for statement necklaces, as large and bold pieces can easily overwhelm your look and make you appear older. While they were trendy in the ’80s and ’90s, it’s time to embrace more modern styles that complement your outfit without taking over.
DON’T: WEAR OVERSIZED FORMAL WEAR
If you’re someone who has to wear smart formal wear to work, you might have (unsuccessfully) tried to mix things up over the years. We don’t blame you, though. Wearing the same suit every week can get pretty boring, but it’s important to steer clear of casual trends when you predominantly wear formal clothing. This is especially true when it comes to the oversized trend, as oversized formal wear just makes you look older.
DO: TRY AND VARY YOUR SILHOUETTE
If you love the comfort and style of baggy clothes, we’d never tell you to give them up. However, baggy clothes can sometimes make you appear older and may not always be the most flattering. Why not strike a balance? By mixing up your silhouette within the same outfit, you can add dimension and style, helping you achieve a youthful, more flattering look. The easiest way to do this is to choose one baggy item and pair it with a more fitted item. For example, why not try baggy wide-legged pants with a figure-hugging top?
DO: OPT FOR A KNEE-LENGTH SKIRT
Many people think they should avoid skirts and dresses as they age, filling their wardrobes with pants and covering their legs for good. But what if we told you that’s not necessary? While ultra-short mini skirts are often associated with teens and supermodels, there’s no reason to shy away from knee-length, midi, or maxi skirts. These styles can be flattering at any age and offer a refreshing, elegant alternative to pants.
DO: ADD MATTE EYESHADOW TO YOUR LOOK
What you wear on your body isn’t the only thing that can make you look older. Your makeup can also add years and sometimes decades to your appearance, which is why it’s important to figure out what makeup works for you. And in most cases, that’s going to be matte eyeshadow. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with wearing glittery eyeshadow on a girly night out, but did you know that glitter actually accentuates your wrinkles?
DO: CHOOSE FITTED CLOTHES OVER BAGGY CLOTHES
Let’s face it, baggy clothes are incredibly comfortable. And when you’re older, juggling a packed schedule, and just want to feel at ease, they’re an easy choice. However, baggy clothes can often be unflattering, hiding your shape and making you look older than you are. Instead, consider incorporating more fitted pieces into your wardrobe for a look that’s both comfortable and flattering.
DO: THROW ON SOME SUNGLASSES
While wearing sunglasses at the office during snowy, winter months might raise a few eyebrows, they can be the perfect finishing touch to your outfit when the sun is shining. Sure, sunglasses are great for protecting your eyes from the sun, but they’re also a stylish accessory that many overlook. A great pair of sunglasses can elevate your look and add a youthful, trendy element to your ensemble.
